So my big 3-0 is this Friday. Holy crap, how did this happen???
If I’m going to be honest (which I always am), I’m having mixed feelings about it. On one hand I’m excited to see what my 30s will bring. On the other I’m freaking out about how fast life is going and all that’s left to accomplish.
In my early 20s I always imagined that by the time I hit 30 my life would look a lot different than it does now. I imagined 30 would transform me into a “real adult” aka a mortgage, kids, job security, and vacations once a year.
Right now none of those things are happening. I feel like I’m still 16, I’m still building and growing my business, kids aren’t even a blip on the radar, I’m living with my in laws and I haven’t taken a vacation since my honeymoon 4 years ago.
On the bright side, I’m married to the love of my life, I get to get up and do what I love every single day, I’m my own boss and make my own schedule, I get to come and go as I please, I’m having so much fun and I’m living the shit out of my life.
So although I’m not where I thought I was going to be at 30, I’m definitely in a great place. Is there still a lot to accomplish? Yes! But am I on my way to creating a life better than I could have ever imagined? HELL YEA.
In honor of my 30th I want to share with you some of the insights, lessons and wisdoms I’ve learned over the last 30 years.
Be true to who you are
Live your life authentically
Feel fear and do it anyway
Trust your inner guide
Do one thing each day that brings you joy
Let everything come from a place of love
It’s okay to ask for help
Surround yourself with people who love you and want the best for you. Ditch the rest
You can only love someone else when you learn to love yourself
Don’t settle for anything less than what you deserve
Read, watch, and listen to things that inspire you
Follow your passions
Stay present and in the moment
You’re a hell of a lot stronger than you think you are
All relationships are a direct reflection of how you feel about yourself
Thoughts create your reality
Find someone who compliments you not completes you
Forgiveness heals all wounds and helps set you free
Speak your truth and be honest about what you want
You are the hero of your own story and you have the power to write it however you want
Practice gratitude and mindfulness every day
Everything is a choice
Don’t try to be someone you’re not. Be your authentic self
Look for the lesson in every situation. What can you learn from this?
Never be ashamed of what you’ve been through
Only you know what’s best for you
Love someone for who they are not what you think they should be
The universe is working with you if you trust in it
Timing is everything
Own your shit, take responsibility, say you’re sorry and respect others
And 1 for good luck***
You are going to fall flat on your face. You are going to fail often. Get up, dust yourself off and keep going. Sometimes things feel like they’re never going to happen. Then all of a sudden they do. Keep trying. Be persistent. Things always happen exactly how they’re supposed to. Believe in that.
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