Why is it that vacation sex always feels so much better than regular sex and why do we have so much more of it?
Vacations are all about spending time together alone, disconnected from the rest of the world and your everyday routine. That’s why the sex is always more exciting. You can have more vacation sex and never leave your house.
You’re on vacation which means you’re probably a lot more relaxed and having fun. What’s not relaxing about sitting on the beach while sipping on a mai tai? What’s not fun about exploring a new city, eating new foods and trying new things? Not too much if you ask me.
Vacations get you out of your routine, allow you to relax and disconnect from your life, explore new things and have fun. And you’re doing all of this with your partner. You’re not checking your phone every 2 seconds, or worrying about jobs/kids/chores/obligations. You are spending some serious QT together.
No wonder the sex is so good!
So now that we know WHY the sex is so good, how do we have more of it on the regular?
The first thing to do is to make sure you designate time to disconnect from the rest of the world. Go on a date and leave your phones at home. Turn off the technology. This will help you stay focused on one another instead of being distracted by the rest of the world.
Spend quality time together and have fun. Go out on a date. Stay in and have a date. Take a walk around your neighborhood. Cook dinner together and talk. Have a good laugh. Talk about why you got together in the first place. Play truth or dare. Whatever you’re doing make sure you are 100% present. It will help you to reconnect.
Get out of your comfort zone. Change things up. Tired of always doing it in the bedroom? Do it in another room of the house. Do it outside. Try a new position. Make out like teenagers. Whatever you normally do, try something different. This will get you out of your routine and makes things exciting.
Follow these steps and you’ll be doing like you’re on vacation all the time!