When I manifested my now husband I had no idea I was even doing it.
But after diving into the world of personal growth and discovering the Law of Attraction, I quickly realized that when it came to love I was a powerful manifester.
When I was single and dating I had absolutely no intention of meeting my future husband. My only goal in my early 20s was to have fun and to make out with as many guys as possible (true story).
My girlfriends and I were out every night just being young and crazy and we had an absolute blast. That was my only focus…meeting new people, having new experiences and having fun with my girlfriends.
Never once did I go out with the intention of meeting my next serious relationship.
By going on a ton of dates and meeting lots of different guys, I got very good at picking up on what characteristics and what I valued in a partner.
I wasn’t consciously making a list, but I was subconsciously making a list.
I was tuning into how I felt around the guy’s energy. I was listening very closely to what my intuition was telling me. I was getting really clear on what I wanted in a relationship and more importantly how I wanted to FEEL.
I also was completely detached from the outcome of each date. Like I said I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship, I was focusing on having fun. I didn’t put pressure on myself or the date, but I had this deep knowing in my bones that one day I would find my person. It was just something I knew would happen. Like breathing air. You can’t see it, but you know it’s there. I just knew it would happen and I expected it to.
So when my husband came around (or back around I should say) it was like BAM! It hit me like a ton of bricks (literally) that this was my person. This was the person that I was meant to spend my life with.
It was also like, well duh! Of course, it happened because I had an unwavering belief that it would. I had so much faith and trust in the universe that it would. I didn’t know how or when I just knew that it would.
So let’s break this down a bit, shall we?
- Release the expectations.
Take the pressure off. Go out with the intention of just having a good time, enjoying a great meal, getting to know someone new.
- Have unwavering faith that it will happen.
Believe it will happen even when you have no evidence. Feel it in your bones that it will happen for you and be detached from the who, what, when, where, why, and how. Put your full trust that the universe is conspiring to make this happen for you.
- Tune into your body and trust your intuition.
Pay close attention to how you feel in another person’s presence. How do they make you feel? What is your intuition telling you? What can you learn from this person about what you want in a relationship/don’t want in a relationship? Get clear on how you want to feel in a relationship.
- Keep an open mind.
You never know where or when you’ll meet your person so just be open to any and all possibilities. If you would have told me I would be so in love and married to my husband a few years ago I would never have believed you. You never know where you’re going to find love so be open. And like I said, stay detached from the who, what, when, where, why, how. That’s not your job to figure out. Your job is to be energetically ready for your person.