When I left my career as a teacher I dreamed of being able to wake up at whatever time, take a yoga class, shower and change back into my PJs then work with amazing clients for a few hours, make dinner, take my dog for a walk with my husband and go to sleep. This was my perfect dream life. And since we are all incredibly strong manifestor’s, of course, I manifested exactly that. For the last 2 years, that’s been my life every single day and it’s been wonderful but now I’m ready for more. Lately, I’ve been feeling the deep need for connection. I didn’t realize how lonely I had become sitting behind a computer all day, only talking to clients over the phone and only connecting with others via social media.

For the last couple of weeks, I have been wandering around my house asking God/spirit/universe to do something about it, to somehow change it. I was literally racking my brain trying to think of ways to get out into the world and connect with other women who are like me. I have such a deep need for this and for me connecting online is not the same as connecting in real life. I miss being able to talk to other humans in person every day.

So after I spent the last couple of weeks asking God/spirit/universe for guidance and nothing happened, I decided to approach it differently. I asked for guidance, said I would be open to whatever comes my way and then I surrendered.  I gave it up to God/spirit/universe and let them take care of the details.

Sure enough later that day I get an intuitive hit to call my new friend who shares similar interests and passions to have dinner. I started feeling really good about this. I was like this is great, we can have a glass of wine and talk about all things wellness! ( I don’t have too many friends who share my interests and passions, although they’re curious about it, but not many of them get this way of thinking. Which is totally fine…no judgment!  I just wanted to surround myself with more women who think like I do.)

So I ask my friend to dinner and after I was feeling really good about it I thought how great would it be if I could do this exact same thing but with a lot more women. It would be so much fun! And it would be so great to have the support system I really want.

About an hour later I get my next intuitive hit.

Create a Meetup.

I’ve never used Meetup before and I was casually scrolling through other meetups but no one had exactly what I was looking for. I honestly didn’t even intend to schedule it right in that moment. I had only planned on researching it.  But before I knew it I was so excited I created the group and the first Meetup.

In that instant, my whole energy shifted around feeling lonely. I went from feeling like this situation was never going to get better to instantly uplifted, energetic and inspired.

I woke up this morning with 35 Requests to be in the group and 10 yes’ for the Meetup! Apparently, there are lots of other women out there who feel the same way I do and who want to connect IRL. Whenever you’re in a situation that doesn’t feel good and you want it to change…

  1. Ask for guidance from God/spirit/universe and be open to HOWEVER it shows up. 9 times out of 10 it never shows up in the way we think it will.
  2. After you ask for guidance step back and let the God/spirit/universe take the wheel. They know what they’re doing so let them take care of it and surrender.
  3. Be open, listen and follow those intuitive hits. When something feels exciting and right do it! Don’t wait. Take action right now. When you ask for the universe to send you something they will and it might be really quick so don’t hesitate, go for it.


xo Jen

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